Are Christian Men Supposed to be Nice Guys?
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Are Christian Men Supposed to be Nice Guys?
What was Paul like?
What was King David like?
What was Daniel like?
What was John the Baptist like?
What was James like?
What was Moses like?
What did Jesus represent?
The opening line, are Christian men supposed to be nice guys?
I don’t think so. I really think men who are sincere men of God, are genuine men of God are men who speak the truth without fear of consequence and love God above all else that matters.
So what was Paul like, he was zealous man, before his conversion where God blinded him for a short period of time, was responsible for carrying out the Roman prosecution against the Christian Church. Paul was described as being passionate, controversial, fiery, destructive and redeemed. What a great description of a man. He went on to write most of the New Testament, a man touched by God, a man moved by God, and a man who wholeheartedly served God. He was mans’ man.
Lets bring King David into the equation, he was not perfect, he had flaws, he committed some of the most heinous crimes a King could commit, murder, adultery, and lied to cover it all up. What words would you use to describe him? Creative, powerful, risk taker, and redeemed. A man after God’s heart, those words pay tribute to David. He was mans’ man
Daniel, a heart of courage, refused to bow under pressure to the point of death, obedient, and courageous. God gave Daniel the ability to understand the dreams of King Nebuchadnezzar, and God gave Daniel favor in King Darius’s court. If you read the book of Daniel how can you not be awe struck, left for dead because he chose God over the rule of the land. In Daniel’s time, God showed his great power through Daniel’s trials. He was mans man.
John the Baptist a little odd his diet locusts and honey, although a loner by even the standards of his day, he prepared the people for Christ’s arrival, even baptized our Lord at the River Jordan. John was living austerely, challenging sinful rulers, calling for repentance, and promising God's justice. John is regarded as a prophet in Christianity. He also is mans man.
James brother of Jesus what a daunting role that would have been, could you fit that role? James was honest, blunt, and a leader. He knew life doesn’t always seem to work out as we think it should. He knew that being a disciple of Christ we must know how to face the tensions between our ideas of how the world ought to be and the way things really are. He spoke the truth, and told us how to be men of God, not men of the world. In the book of James chapter 4 verse 17 it simply states, “Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.” He was mans man.
Moses, left home at 3 months old, grew up with all the privilege you could imagine. Son of Pharaoh with all the slaves at his fingertips. Yet he knew God had a higher purpose for him, and after he murdered a man he fled. In that wilderness God found him, and molded him. The story of the burning bush, God speaks to Moses, and like most of us he replies, “Who am I to appear before Pharaoh? Who am I to lead the people of Israel out of Egypt?” Exodus 3:11. Although he questioned his role, he didn’t question what God was going to do. Then when Moses returned to Egypt, 10 plagues came upon the Egyptians until finally Pharaoh let them go. He was mans man.
Jesus represents all of these men, forgave each of these men, and redeemed each of these men. In His lifetime, Jesus was rejected, scorned, disrespected, and hated. Yet that did not distract Him from His mission, His calling to be the cornerstone for Christianity.
Jesus gave everything up, and for approximately 33 years related to us, lived among us, listened and taught us. Then laid it all down, stretch His arms wide, as His body hung on a bloody cross that we might believe on Him. He died.
Three days later, the stone was gone, we all know the Easter Story, he appeared to His disciples, he appeared too many others, and now we have the opportunity to share in this glory and honor.
In the book of Revelation our Lord is described as “the rider on the white horse” Revelation 19 verses 11 through 16.
11I saw heaven standing open
and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True.
With justice he judges and makes war. 12His eyes are like blazing fire, and on his head are many
crowns. He has a name written on him that no one knows but he himself. 13He is dressed in a robe dipped in blood, and his name is
the Word of God. 14The armies of
heaven were following him, riding on white horses and dressed in fine linen,
white and clean. 15Out of his
mouth comes a sharp sword with which to strike down the nations. "He will
rule them with an iron scepter.” He treads the winepress of the fury of the
wrath of God Almighty. 16On his robe
and on his thigh he has this name written:
KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS.
Jesus is my King. I do not for a second believe that Jesus would want men of God to be nice guys, nice guys have no back bone, nice guys are mommy’s boys, and nice guys give in to the pressures of this world.
I am not a nice guy, I am a Bible believing man of God, who knows I am in a battle, and this war will be won.
I didn't write this hub to win a popularity contest, I wrote this hub in hopes that the men who read my hubs will realize that God's purpose for their lives is so much more that going to church on Sunday, more than being an upright citizen in this corrupt age, being a nice guy you will not face challenges, and you will not be able to be the man God has called you to be.
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That is very well written and I am so glad that you are a man wanting to follow God's will for your life!
I believe that men of God who are zealous like Paul, powerful in their quest for God like David, audaciously bold for Christ like John the Baptist, who lead as did james the Great in a way that knows and speaks the truth for Christ, determined to follow God as did Moses, and who bears the heart of Christ is also a man who is able to know compassion, and is able to sensistively experience life. Our culture has mixed up ideas about what it means to be a snsitive man. Good article
As a man of God I feel a need to be humble but I have not made it their yet.But serving God requires strenght under control. Thanks for writting this hub great hub because if the men of God don't stand up in this hour hell will need another chamber to hold it's captives it's our job to fight for the souls of our fellow man.
Interesting, although I must say that a man can be nice without being soft.
When Paul became one of God's own, he was truly zealous, and passionate, but he wasn't cruel and heartless after God took him.
darrinintheden well said...and I pray that it goes far.
No Christian men are not supposed to be 'nice guys'. They are to image forth God in authority and order, maintaining justice and speaking the Truth.
Christian men are called to seek the righteousness of the Father and be discerning and wise while compassionate and merciful.
Nice would be a walk in the park! However, God has greater vision and purpose for His Sons- His own purpose to glorify himself! :)
Grace and peace to you,
Fiona
I totally disagree on the "nice guy" thing. Christ asked us to do just two things: love the Lord . . . and love your neighbor . . . you can read the rest yourself if you want, but the point is, if you do these things, you could not help but be a nice guy. This does not mean letting yourself be walked over. People are not martyred for being walked over. I think we agree on everything but the definition of nice, so I will end with this: nice does not have to be weak.
As A man of God, daily seeking His heart, learning more humbleness and integrity, God working on purity, am not satisfied with just as is. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves, and The Lord with all of our heart souls and mind, but also has called us to flourish. For me, that means taking steps out to speak those words in my own life and others, and take time to "Be Still", which i can be so busy doing, that i need to soak up His presence and walk out in the calling He has given me to be a blessing.
Pastors are not preparing children to go to the playground, but rather they are outfitting soldiers of Christ to head off into war. - Dr. John Gill
This quote drives my whole ministry, I'm not sending counselors into the world, I'm sending warriors. Great post...the pictures are somewhat girly, but the point comes across.
Have a blessed day!
Happy Easter
Love,
Ghosty
You have blessed my life with this piece
Great article, Darrin. Ever read Wild at Heart?
Like it
"Nice" is not a fruit of the spirit yet the nine fruit do not suggest anything about being a "man's man". God IS the fruit of the spirit and His men are characterized by them. "Nice guys" are not necessarily spiritual wimps yet it is easier to love a "nice" man than one who is so frozen in some fleshly man's opinion who is too frigid and bold to say good morning or perform a kind gesture.
best article yet
I just have to adhere to THE absolute LAW which is that we treat each other with kindness (of course providing this would be possible). If any religion here on our small planet does not adhere to and extol the Golden Rule - it's just a cult. The LAW is Love thy neighbor. It's above all laws -to Christians. I'll try to adhere to that. It's the law. Thank you!
Oh yeah- Daniel was a vegetarian. Imagine after all that time of God giving permission to eat meat after the flood (cooked meat), Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abenego were vegetarians. Again -thank you!
I believe theys nothing wrong with being a nice guy and a man of God at the same time.What is important is to have a character God wil approve.
The problem I'm experiencing is that my mother raised me saying "If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all". With that being ingrained in me, I'm left without much to say, because the truth is not always nice. The word nice is not found anywhere in the KJV translation. I'm in sense bound with being a nice guy until that can somehow be loosed in me.
I think they idea of nice guy has nothing to do with being christian.. there are many people who confuse nice with push over.. bieng nice doesnt mean you have to take crap from people. Of course christian men would be categorized as nice people cause thats what god wants us to be. Not nice in the weak sense this whole nice guy alpha male thing is for people who dont know god and are aimless in searching for themselves.















Trudee 2 years ago
Amen!